Why Jennifer Lopez Feels ‘Upset And Disappointed’ With Ben Affleck

The singer and dancer started divorce proceedings towards the “Argo” star on August 20, after months of hypothesis that their marriage had failed.

Since Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s cut up, the actor has been linked with Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s daughter.

Lopez is reportedly harboring some ailing emotions in the direction of Affleck as she waits for her separation to be finalized.

A supply revealed to People Magazine that the 55-year-old has been “actually hit laborious” by the divorce, regardless of her efforts to challenge a powerful entrance since deciding to finish the wedding.

Together with the ache of dropping her marriage, Lopez feels “very upset and upset” with Affleck, who had moved out of their $68 million Beverly Hills mansion properly earlier than the divorce was filed.

With Lopez having the home all to herself, she is discovering it troublesome to remain there alone. In accordance with the supply,  the mansion’s large measurement, together with the flood of reminiscences—each good and unhealthy— are the the reason why she feels this fashion.

The insider added, “She and Ben purchased the home for the entire household. It is means too large for her and full of too many reminiscences as properly.”

Lately, sources near Lopez shared perception into her marriage, telling Individuals that the singer spent a “lot of time ensuring” Affleck was “glad.” This included guaranteeing he had “every little thing he wanted” and even caring for him in an virtually “childlike” means.

Nevertheless, regardless of her immense commitments, Lopez nonetheless needed to take care of Affleck being “very moody and darkish at occasions,” which seemingly contrasted together with her extra upbeat way of life.

A unique supply offered extra rationalization for his darkish moods, claiming that the “Accountant” star “has by no means dealt with stress properly” and does not have “good coping abilities.”

The insider defined, “He will get simply annoyed and tends to be moody. When he is relaxed and in a great temper, it is wonderful to be round him. However extra typically, he is upset or annoyed.”

They added, “Many occasions, it is simply one thing small that he will get caught on. He actually does not perceive how his unhealthy temper impacts individuals round him. It is simply not enjoyable being round that sort of negativity.”

Lopez and Affleck didn’t welcome any kids throughout their marriage, though they did share a blended household.

On Lopez’s half, she has two youngsters,  twins Max and Emme, 16, with ex Marc Anthony. In the meantime, Affleck has three youngsters, Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, with ex Jennifer Garner.

For the reason that duo began leaving aside, Lopez hasn’t shied away from being round Affleck’s youngsters. Current experiences have confirmed that she paid a uncommon go to to Affleck’s rental house to spend a while together with his youngsters.

Nevertheless, Affleck has but to reciprocate the gesture, hinting that he could be making an attempt to chop off no matter connection they shared whereas he was married to their mom.

A supply shared, per Individuals, “The truth that he has not seen her youngsters in a very long time, it is like he left, however she is very near his youngsters.”

Though Lopez and Affleck’s divorce could take months to finalize, the latter has already been linked to a different girl.

Rumors have swirled that Affleck has been “hanging out” with Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s daughter, Kick Kennedy. Nevertheless, neither of them has addressed the character of their connection.

In accordance with a supply, Affleck and Kick aren’t simply assembly for the primary time as they’ve shared a little bit of romance prior to now, which by no means overlapped with Affleck’s relationship with Lopez.

“Ben and Kick had a fling earlier than he obtained again along with JLo,” the insider revealed, per Every day Mail. “They met as a result of Ben is from Boston, and once you dwell in Boston, the Kennedy household is royalty.”

“They did not have any affair throughout his marriage, however it’s fascinating to Kick’s pals that as quickly as this divorce occurred impulsively Ben is hanging out with an outdated hookup whose household he sees as royalty.”

A supply near the music famous person spoke to Peopleand revealed that Lopez is “doing in addition to she will be able to” after making the massive transfer to finish her marriage.

She filed for divorce on what would have been the two-year anniversary of their lovely and lavish Georgia marriage ceremony.

The supply revealed that Lopez by no means wished a divorce, however Affleck left her no alternative. They mentioned, “It has been extremely troublesome for her that Ben selected to tug away from their marriage and transfer on together with his life, leaving her behind. She did not desire a divorce. She wished to determine issues out. They love one another.”

The supply insisted that Lopez is “not the kind to only surrender” on something, a lot much less marriage, however she actually had no alternative as a result of “it has been virtually torture for her to attend round.”

Nevertheless, now that Lopez has lastly filed for divorce, the “Atlas” star reportedly “appears relieved.”